Divorce settlement state of mind

We’ve made it this far and I anticipate that it will be an annoying process to complete. I want the lawyers to give her the best advice unless they have been advising her from the beginning…then I don’t know what to say.

I imagine, from what I gathered from the letter from the lawyers that she doesn’t know what she’s talking about. I mean the information I got in a consultation with a lawyer…the lawyer seemed confident in my filing, therefore I should be confident. 

I should focus on that.

Why do I question myself? It’s the gaslight effect. I’m conditioned. I become anxious about her reactions to things. I need to be able to anticipate needs wants and moods to create a safe place with no conflict. Easy with some people, bit not the narcissist. 

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